Holding Grace, Letting Go!
"Don't burn the bridges", he keeps saying. "Yes, Mr. Hubby, I understand where this is coming from. But what about mental peace?", I argue. If I place me before others, am I wrong? A bridge connects people but if the people are not interested in connecting, then why keep the bridge? Forgiving someone doesn't mean giving access to them again. Nor does healing requires reconnection. Reconciliation is a choice that depends on trust. Let them misunderstand. Not every misunderstanding requires a defense. Sometimes peace is found in letting people have their opinions. Back in the day, I believed kindness meant never disappointing anyone. Even when I wasn't keen, I would say yes, to not escalate the situation. My silence overtook my speech, and I had to carry burdens that were never mine. Somewhere down the line, I started realising that to make others comfortable I was sacrificing my peace. To be able to protect my peace, it didn't mean, I had to be le...