Holding Grace, Letting Go!
"Don't burn the bridges", he keeps saying. "Yes, Mr. Hubby, I understand where this is coming from. But what about mental peace?", I argue. If I place 'me' before others, am I wrong? A bridge connects people but if the people are not interested in connecting, then why keep the bridge? Forgiving someone doesn't mean giving access to them again. Nor does healing requires reconnection. Without trust, reconciliation is just a performance. Let them misunderstand. Not every accusation deserves your energy. Sometimes peace is found in letting people have their opinions - Unknown. I used to think, kindness was agreeing. Even when I wasn't keen, I would say yes, to not escalate the situation. My silence overtook my speech, and I carried their storms in my heart. Somewhere down the line, I started realising that to make others comfortable I was sacrificing my peace. Can't I guard my peace and still have a soft heart? Thus, it dawned upon me that ...