Anger Management!

"Count from one to ten, slowly, Jui", my mom used to tell me when I was small. "This will give you time to breathe, relax, think and decide whether to be angry or contemplate about the reason behind your anger", she used to say. "If you aint still pacified, count more", was her idea of anger managment! We always say he has a short temper, she has a real bad temper. Temper is the tendency to become angry very quickly. This disposition may be inherited or acquired. We may have seen people close to us getting angry and dominating, and we may have got influenced by this in our early childhood. Or due to situations we face or frustrations we have during our growing up phase, we tend to become ill-tempered. Or in adulthood, as we age, we loose our patience and get offended easily and become more wrathful! We tend to defend our 'short tempered' charateristic by saying "I aint short tempered, just that I react quickly to bullshit" - ...