Decide to be happy!


Being happy is a very personal thing, it has really nothing to do with anyone else. Its a step we have to take forward. Little things can bring happiness too! We dont have to always win lottery or score 10/10 or win competitions, to be happy. Once we decide in our head and mind, we can be happy in any situation.

We get a chance to live only once, so do what makes you happy and be with whoever makes you feel so. Donot wait for something to happen, the best time to be happy is always 'now'.
When you know you have the power to choose what to 'accept' and what to 'let go', you will automatically stay happy. Dont search for happiness outside, create it! The less you care what others think, the happier you will be!

Keep reminding yourself - I was smiling yesterday, I am smiling today and I will keep smiling tomorrow. Happiness is a state of mind, its how you look at things. As they say "when it rains look for rainbows and when its dark look for the stars!". In life, there are always so many reasons to be happy. Be happy not because everything is great but because you see something great in everything.

Being sad, angry or overthinking wont always help. Instead be positive towards things. Always see the bright side.
Remember "happy girls are the prettiest".(No feminism here. You can change the gender and read.)
Being happy isnt a great art. You just have to decide deep down your heart and see how things change for good.

Visit the places that make you happy, meet the people that add up to your happiness.....I love oceans - they make me calmer, I can sit on the shore for long hours, just watching the waves come and go - It makes me happy! I love the drizzles of rain - the greens that it makes, the smell of the earth - It makes me happy! ...Find out what makes you happy!

Thoughts that you think, things that you say and your actions - when all of this is in harmony - you sure are going to be happy.
For some happiness is being with family and freinds, for some its winning, for some its letting go off your worries, for some its eating delicious food, for some its making others laugh, for some its being with a loved one. Whatever reason it may be, decision of being happy is what matters. So commit to your happiness, as, "being happy never goes out of style!".


                 
                                                                                                    JUI.

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