Sailing in a relationSHIP!




 We are related by blood, we are related by law, we are related through acquaintance....We hop on into a relationship through various possibilities. 

When we appreciate the similarities and respect the differences - any relationship can sail smoothly.

They say no relationship is all sunshine. But people can share one umbrella when its raining heavily or survive a storm together! This is how a relationship grows stronger. 

Knowing your perfections and imperfections and still being by your side is what a best companion can do. To build a firm relationship we have to be willing to understand each others mistakes and also forgive each other. 

Communication, appreciation and understanding are the pillars to escalate the strength of any relationship. 

There is always a reason why you meet people in your life. When you form a bond they stay with you forever; while others are just passers-by. 

Breaking up is easy, but fixing the problem is the real remedy. You have to concentrate on the 10 beautiful things your relationship has given you, instead of clinging onto 1 bad thing that happened.  Just because theres a bad chapter doesn't mean that the whole story should have a bad ending. When you have lovely people around, the problems aren't severe anymore, rather, you feel you can withstand them all. 

Having said this, sometimes, Goodbyes are inevitable too! Its better to end something that is militating, distressing or marring for you.

"If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello!" - Paulo Coelho.

Losing someone who doesn't appreciate and respect you is actually a gain not a loss.

Theres nothing like a  Perfect Relationship. Thing that counts is never giving up effortlessly. Its about being there. Encouragement is a fertiliser in any relationship. Stop being a critic, if you want your relationship to bloom. Trust, certitude, faith and belief are also the supplements you require to nurture it and keep thriving.

There will be fights, arguments, jealousy, judgements but overcoming all that, sitting together and making things clear, transparent is always better. Being accessible is necessary. 

Build bridges instead of walls, you will never feel lonely.  We need people to share our happiness, sorrow, anxiety, everything...

The winds of difficulties are always blowing , all you need to do is raise your sails and keep sailing.....



JUI.


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