Can you read her mind?

 




The 7 wonders of the world... I wonder why 'Woman' isn't included in it?

They say a woman's brain is complicated...they say her emotions are complicated.. yeah, true! But there could be N number of reasons for this!

During the 'Early human Era' things were simple. Man was assigned the duty of hunting, while woman had to do the cooking, period. Then...She also had to give birth to children. She also had to raise them, look after them. See now, one is assigned with a specific duty and just a single one. While the other has to do all that remains to do. So now this other person starts multitasking! And here things start getting complicated.

When you have so much to do, you have a lot of things going on in your mind, at a time. Your body is doing some work but may be your mind is preoccupied with something other, that has to be done too! You also attach your emotions to all this work. Specially, if its related to your family. Even after slogging for everybody, at the end of the day you dont get a pat on your back or nobody bothers to ask you if you are tired.... then the emotions take over. You feel left alone. You feel ignored. You start overthinking.....

All this adds up to 'how complicated you can be?'...right?

'You dont know a woman until you understand what shes not saying to you!' - Unknown.

Are we on the same page readers?

Ok, then let's move on...

Its sometimes difficult for a woman to decipher her own brain and emotions too. You cannot always break down things into simple manner! After certain age, the hormones also start playing weird games....complicating things even more. So the problem escalates.

But dont you think, these complications are that, what makes a woman interesting? What's the fun if it's all predictable, right? This is what differentiates us from men! This is what, that is fascinating!

Reading her mind is a complex thing to do....don't ever try!


AUTHOR'S NOTE: I am just posting my thoughts here. I don't want everyone to agree with me though! I don't want to advise men on Dos and Don'ts too.... it's just not going to work...I know its complicated!

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